The Complexities of Life

The “I, I, I…Me, Me, Me” in Relationships

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What defines a relationship?

For me, two (or more) individuals come together in a relationship while still having individual lives.

Very simple, right?

It should be, buuuutttt…a relationship can be made difficult when it doesn’t have to be. When communicating, everyone in the relationship should consider each other while communicating their wants, needs, and feelings. But when you’re concerned with you and only you, the relationship doesn’t have a fighting chance.

I call this the “I, I, I…Me, Me, Me” mentality. It’ll ruin a relationship before it has a fighting chance.

Relationships are about balance. Without that, you’re riding with a bad alignment. If you don’t get the alignment.

Until next time,

JoyJu

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