Folks feel some kind of way when their tea (aka personal business) becomes storytime (aka tea time) for the kids.
If you feel that your tea is being spilled amongst the masses, you shouldn’t be putting the water into the pot.
My bestie LVC said it best. “If you yourself enjoy a nice high tea every now and then, you should be prepared to be a special on the menu once in a while.”
Pinkies up. Tea is served.