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    I’m Featured on “Oh Hey, Nina”


    There are things that I want to talk about that I don’t aren’t necessarily a good fit for this blog. So I decided that  Oh Hey, Nina would be the perfect place for my guest blog post entitled “Pardon Your Manners: First Impressions of Online Dating”. That’s right, I’m a guest blogger pats self on back. I’m pretty excited and would love it if you would take a few minutes to show Nina some love. She’s pretty awesome and her blog is dope as hell.

    Oh, and one more thing. If you don’t mind, let me know what you think about my guest blog post. I would really appreciate the feedback.



    Updated March 5, 2015

  • Love, Dating, & Relationships,  Public Service Announcement

    Public Service Announcement: Salutations and Online Dating

    Some men have either forgotten their manners or were never taught any. Addressing a woman you don’t know by anything other than “Miss”, “Ms.”, or “Ma’am” will get you verbally throat chopped.

    Recently, someone left me a message on a dating site I’m subscribed to. Imagine my disgust when I read the following:

    “Hey boo.”

    My initial reaction was to go off on this moron. Once I calmed down, I realized that this guy has used this line on other women before and at least one of them thought it was cute. Gross.

    If bad behaviors are acceptable by the majority, why correct them? While my fault likes in the man who sent me that mess, I also blame women for not correcting these dudes when they step out of line. If you think being called “boo” by a stranger is acceptable, what else will you accept?

    Apparently a whole lot.

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    Headlines That Make You Go Hmm…

    This is what happens when one is bored to the point of stupidity. I happened to log onto a popular dating site and was intrigued by the headlines on the profiles on these guys. Adding a bit of commentary just spices up the stupidity.
    Dont fall 4rm heaven without a caughter
    I can’t stand bad grammar. Makes my eye twitch. Stop using text messaging shorthand as regular writing!
    Common law girlfriend wanted – apply within
    Who is going to take you seriously? Who has “Become common law girlfriend” on her list of goals?
    ultra violet rays bad. lotion good.
    *Blank stare and head scratch*
    *Caucasian Is My Persuasion*
    I don’t knock anyone’s preference. That’s all I’m going to say about that.
    I’m still laughing. Are you?
  • Love, Dating, & Relationships

    Online Dating: Observations

    Online dating. We see the commercials for popular dating websites such as cough Match.com and eHarmony that feature all of these former residents of Single Island that have found love. Their testimonials are so bubbly in hopes that you too will find that special someone according to.

    Insert massive eye roll here

    Many dating sites guarantee that you’ll meet your perfect match based on some proven system of algorithms, points, interests, etc. My inner pessimist calls that a load of crap. Too often have I logged on to see that I have a high percentage of matches that meet my criteria. Once I read the profiles, I start to question this alleged proven system.

    Some of the observations that have me ringing the BS alarm:

    1. Photos say a lot without saying anything.

    There ‘s a HUGE difference between a photo taken 5 months ago and a photo taken 5 years ago. How can I take you seriously with a photo taken in 1999? At the same time, who do you think you’re going to attract with no photos?

    2. If you ask for it, make sure you have it first.

    Sure, we want someone who has their own transportation, living situation, job, etc. Don’t have a list of demands that you aren’t able to fulfill yourself. Asking for a mate to have a car and their own living situation while you’re couch surfing and bus hopping is not attractive.

    3.  Don’t pass judgement.

    I see this a lot. Too often, I’ll see a profile that specifically states that they’re only interested in a specific race of men/women. This is not the problem since we all have our personal preference. With that in mind, you don’t need to include a paragraph in your profile disrespecting all other races.

    4. “I’m not here for sex but…”

    Haha, this is hilarious. I can recall seeing a guy’s profile photos and he was naked in every.single.photo. Then, to cap it off, he had the audacity to say that he wasn’t interested in sex. Could have fooled me sir.

    First impressions don’t mean squat for many. I’ve deleted and blocked more profiles than I have responded to. If this is what’s out there, I’ll continue to reside on Single Island. There are other things I care more about, like happy hour and football season.

    Yes, football season.