“If I were you…”
“You know, if you…”
“Stop waiting and…”
“But why aren’t you doing/going/etc…”
pauses
I understand that people mean well, I do. I also understand that those people are looking out for my well-being. And I appreciate that. When I’m in the head space, I can receive the information and respond. But there are times where I’m not ready to receive nor respond.
When you aren’t ready, you aren’t ready.
I get that you mean well. Please understand that I won’t always be in the space to receive what you are saying to me. Yes, it’s frustrating and I mean no disrespect towards you. When I’m ready, I will let you know.
Keep looking out for me…
…and I’ll continue to do the same for you.