The Recovering Pessimist

Helping pessimists see the bright side of life without losing their "half empty" roots.

Let Go!

Apr
17

The Recovering Pessimist: Let Go -- Holding onto grudges, negative people, and unhappy situations served no purpose other than blocking my blessings. | www.therecoveringpessimist.me #amwriting #recoveringpessimist I had a long-standing history of being unable to let go. I held onto grudges from high school. I kept people around who sucked all the positivity out of the air. I remained in situations that I was no longer happy in.

Why?

I got comfortable. The grudges, negative people, and unhappy situations had become my normal. It was my normal for so long that I didn’t realize that I was blocking my blessings.

[bctt tweet=”You cannot invite goodness into your life if negativity surrounds you.” username=”MsWalton”]

What’s the point of holding onto grudges, bad vibes, negative people, etc? Does it offer anything beneficial to your life?

Absolutely not.

Spend some time analyzing the people, situations, grudges, that are part of your life. Take inventory of your life and consider the following:

If it doesn’t make you happy, let go!

If it doesn’t invite positivity into your life, let go!

If it doesn’t challenge you, let go!

Don’t allow negativity to block your journey in life. You deserve better.

Until next time,

MsWalton

 

My 2015 Wrap Up

Dec
28

The Recovering Pessimist: My 2015 Wrap Up-- Memories, lessons, and highlights that made this of of the best years of my adult life. | www.therecoveringpessimist.me #amwriting #recoveringpessimist #optimisticpessimist

There are three days left in 2015. Seriously, where did the time go? I swear, we got to June, and the remaining six months just flew by. Insane. Before I got wrapped up in 2016, I wanted to share a few of the lessons, highlights, and memories that made 2015 one of the best years of my adult life.

Letting Go

When I decided that I was going to practice letting go in 2015, I knew there was one thing I absolutely had to let go of:

DEAD WEIGHT

In the past, there were so many people who took too much of my time and energy. Under no circumstances are they solely to blame. I kept them around because we were family, friends, and/or had sentimental value.

I have goals, hopes, and dreams that I need to make my reality. Guess what that requires? That’s right, time and energy. The two things that dead weight were draining from me.

[bctt tweet=”Life has a way of making things happen not when you want them to happen, but instead when Life feels you are ready for things to happen.”]

There were events that occurred that throughout the year that stung emotionally. Once I got past it, I gained an incredible amount of clarity. Those events were opportunities to let people and things go that were no longer good for me. Not to say that I couldn’t have done it sooner, but sometimes you need an extra push in order for you to get the message.

[bctt tweet=”I can’t make room for greatness if I allow dead weight to hold me back.”]

Time Management + Determination = Success

I struggled with time management throughout the year. I would spend an entire day lounging around, knowing I had things to do. Oftentimes, it would take me days to catch up.

[bctt tweet=”If you don’t manage your time, you’ll never cross things off your to-do list.”]

So, I compromised with myself. Instead of spending the entire day working on one blog post, I started using the Pomodoro Technique. Using my ClearFocus app, I would start a task and work on it for 25 minutes. If I needed more time, I would skip the break and continue working for another 25 minutes. It was amazing how much I got done in such a small amount of time.

[bctt tweet=” You have to make the most of the time you have. “]

#LenovoSurprise

In February, I wrote about how a tweet led to a new laptop. I wanted to share with the Twitterverse (Twitter + Universe) the full circle of emotions I had when I realized that it was indeed a dream. Under no circumstances did I think that Lenovo would respond, let alone get their followers involved to make my dream come true.

[bctt tweet=”@Lenovo reminded me that dreams indeed do come true. #LenovoSurprise”]

Memories

My favorite memory of this year was when I finally met Amber from Climb Out of the Cubicle in person. She’s my sister from another ma’am and mister. Even though she’s 12 hours away from me, I’m sure she’ll agree that we’re still pretty attached.

[bctt tweet=”I’m forever grateful for having @theambermonaco in my life. Finally meeting her was my favorite memory of 2015.”]

The ups and downs I’ve experienced this year reaffirmed what I want (and don’t want) at this stage of my life. I’m beyond excited for 2016 ready for whatever is to come.

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