Do you enjoy cleaning? Why or why not?
Not really. I do it because I have to do it. Once I start it, I’m fine. Motivating myself to start cleaning is the problem.
While doing some emotional spring cleaning, I realized that there are some people in my life that take without giving, and they have to go.
Friendships work like ATMS. As long as you have the funds available to sustain the friendship, the friendship works. The moment the funds start to dwindle is when the friendship becomes insufficient.
I’m tired of putting funds into this friendship while the other parties continue to withdraw from the accounts. This time isn’t like all the others when I just “deal with it”. I’m pissed. I’ve put water in the pot. Put the pot on the stove. Turned the stove on and now the water is boiling over.
I’m closing the account and redistributing funds amongst the friendships that matter to me.